Dr. Oren Hernandez, a marriage counselor and director at the Counseling and Psychological Center in Coral Springs, Florida, developed a test consisting of eight, multiple choice questions, which he indicated is "pretty accurate," in terms of predicting the long term survivability of a couple’s relationship. Take the test and see where your relationship might stand. The test follows:
1. Money is the number one cause of arguments?
A) Never
B) Sometimes
C) Always
2. Do you believe arguing is healthy?
A) Sometimes
B) Always
C) Never
3. We have trouble communicating?
A) Never
B) Sometimes
C) Always
4. I'm satisfied with our sex life?
A) Always
B) Sometimes
C) Never
5. I trust spouse completely?
A) Always
B) Sometimes
C) Never
6. Taking time for myself in a marriage is important?
A) Always
B) Sometimes
C) Never
7. I worry my spouse could be unfaithful?
A) Never
B) Sometimes
C) Always
8. Spirituality is important in our relationship?
A) Always
B) Sometimes
C) Never
Scoring
Count the number of 'A's' you scored. A perfect score is all A's. If you scored between six and eight A's: "That means your relationship is in pretty good shape," says Dr. Hernandez. A score between four and six A’s, means you might want to take a closer look at your relationship, while Four A’s and below, means "Definitely question your spouse," says Dr. Hernandez.
Reprinted with permission from Dr. Oren Hernandez
It might also mean that it is time for you both to seek professional help.
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Tuesday, August 16, 2011
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